I’ve avoided writing about the Presidential election until now. And I know this is probably the last place you come to read about politics. But I wonder if you’re not feeling like I was–confused between what my head was saying and what my heart knows to be true.

At the first mention of Sarah Palin’s partnership with John McCain, I put on my

Mother-of-Four Hat:

There’s no way a mother of five can do justice to her family while holding such a demanding position. Really, how can she do all the things I think make someone a good mother and give her all to the government?

Then, I wrestled with myself and ended up wearing my

Ms. Equality-Non-Hypocrite Hat:

If I’m not going to question the ability of fathers of young children (e.g. Barak Obama) to successfully hold public offices, then I won’t question the women of young children.

Right after Ms. Palin’s speech at the RNC last week, my alter-ego slapped on my

Throw-Her-Under-the-Bus Hat:

She’s got what it takes to bring some change to Washington. Let her figure out what to do with her children. I don’t really care, as long as she does what she says she’ll do in Washington.

Oh, but really the hat I need to wear is a

Hard-Hat.

It’s what I’ll need while the doctor uses a crane to extract the BEAM from my EYE.

Now, this is sweet!

Over and again friends have asked me where I collected the doodads in the bowl on my coffee table. I was embarrassed to have to admit they were “potpourri” from the craft store. So on vacation I collected a huge bag of authentic North Carolina beach shells, so that when my friends ask I can hold my head high and say I plucked them right off the beach between waves.

That makes me think of the “advice” I pass on sometimes. I give suggestions based on what I’ve read in books or heard on radio programs. But really, it is what I’ve learned first-hand that is most precious. It’s what I’ve gleaned through the crash of the waves that is really valuable to others.

That’s two thousand three hundred beads I gave my two year old to play with today. What was I thinking ?!

When I bought that cheap printers drawer at the yard sale, I was thinking it would be fun to put a few things in it for her to sort while the older children were working on their schoolwork.

I should stick with my simple aspirations. I did learn the physics of picking up two thousand beads from berber carpet. Flatten your hand and sweep downward and away from your body. If you attempt to get up underneath them and pull them toward yourself, they pop like corn in a kettle! Well, check off “science class” for the day. It wasn’t a total loss.

Doorposts has a wonderful resource called Family Circles which helps you to plan Special Time with your family. I added in the chore function and came up with a tool that helps us to get our house clean and make time for one another.

Each morning I rotate the blue circle clockwise and the yellow circle counter-clockwise. The kids LOVE it! You really could amend this in so many ways. Brooke says, “It’s fun!” Okay, so when did your 8 year old last say chore charts were fun?!

It was 11pm and everyone was nestled all snug in their beds…except me. I was up watching the Republican National Convention (caught the Democratic one while on vacation) and got the silly notion to begin decorating my window. So I dragged out the panes and the trimmings and began what I knew would be a great undertaking.

See, I’ve been on the hunt for a window to decorate for over a year, since I saw my friend Kathy’s in her kitchen. I wish I had a photo of it–it’s gorgeous. I dragged Kathy to our local architectural salvage place and began hunting. Only, I realized something–I don’t like old things. I don’t like scratchy, dirty things I’ll have to clean or refinish.

I finally found an old window in decent shape at a little old hardware store in the heart of town, where an 85 year old woman was moving storm doors all around while her husband ate lunch and stared blankly past us. I wonder about their story. Then I came home, shelved it for a few weeks, and finally painted it on Labor Day. How fitting. I have never done anything like this. I’ve seen women’s tassles and amazing paper garlands and have been secretly jealous. So I’m really proud of myself for stepping out to tackle this.

Here is the finished product. I have just the spot for it on my living room wall.

While on Topsail we had the opportunity to observe God’s beautiful, and sometimes peculiar, Creation.

The vacation home had its own pre-stocked Nature Table. Breanna loved it!

Twenty years ago you could find these huge (8″-12″) shells lying all over Topsail Beach.

It took us all week to catch a single minnow. We didn’t catch it in the surf, as we usually do. This time Brad dug down in the sand until he hit water and foiund the little guy in this bucket.

Right below our house was a sea turtle nest. We waited for two hours one night in the dark, hoping they’d hatch. Maybe next year.

The first time I saw one of these, I thought it was some kind of candy. It felt gelatinous and the blue edges rubbed right off. I can’t find it in any guide. If you know what it is, please let me know. It’s about 1.5″ in diameter.

We found many animal tracks. We’ll be studying tracking this fall.

A few years ago we actually dissected a beached jellyfish. Guess what was inside it? More jelly! We didn’t bother cutting this one open with a steak knife.

One night we headed out with our flashlights to find ghost crabs. We finally caught one in a spaghetti jar and observed him in a Tupperware container–after he snapped Chuck’s finger.

I relished watching this blackbird (the first I’d ever seen on a beach) catch and eat htis sand crab.

We don’t have palm trees at home–except in malls. This one was beautiful against the dark night sky.

The neighbors obviously had green thumbs–the ground behind their dune was covered in cacti and other sand-fauna.

This is our old friend, the One-Legged-Sand-Piper. He’s been around our stretch of beach forever.

We passed this burned out forest on our way to Wilmington. It’s strange to see the dead forest surrounded by the lush greenage.

A man found a 2×4 about 6 feet long covered in these barnacles. We looked them up in Petersons, but I can’t remember what they’re called. Let’s just say I call them the “creepy black worm barnacles.”

And no visit to Pelican Palace would be complete without pelicans

These aren’t all our finds, but I haven’t even gotten through all our photographs. Still, they are stunning.

Midway through vacation week, just when we were ready for a short break from sandy feet, it stormed–so we headed to our favorite tourist spot, the Wilmington Children’s Museum.

Let me take you on a tour of this most amazing place.

The Science Lab

The Pirate Ship and Beach

The Art Room

The Circus Room

The Grocery Store

The Cafe

The Black Light Room

The Movie Studio

The Karaoke Cove

The Outdoor Wonderland

 Tomorrow…sea oddities and beauties.